We found this awesome article written by Sean Jameson www.yourtango.com, apparently he is an expert,don’t know how he got to be an expert but it’s worth the read. If you do decide to give it a try please feel free to share your story with us, we love to hear from you…
1.First Set the mood
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You might be excited to just jump in and start massaging your man and quickly get to the “happy ending.” It’s totally understandable because it’s just so much fun, but if you can take a step back and start with setting the mood, then your man is going to have a much better time.’
In almost all cases, you’ll be giving your man a massage on your bed in your bedroom. The easiest thing to do in your bedroom to set the mood is the lighting. Either use candles or direct a bedside lamp towards the corner wall. The main thing is to make sure it’s not too bright.
Next comes the smell. Ideally, you’ll have a scented candle to help with giving your room a nice aroma, but if not then spray a little perfume. While it’s not for everyone, you can also try burning incense.
Lastly, you need to choose an oil or massage lotion for your happy ending massage. Just remember that these oils will degrade a rubber condom and make it likely that it will tear. The only other thing is what you wear. You can try lingerie, but you may find that simply being naked is far, far more comfortable.
2.Take it slow
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The first time learning how to give a happy ending massage, you shouldn’t tell him about the happy ending part. It should be a surprise. Just ask him if he’d like a massage. No guy will turn down a free massage!
Now, you may be feeling a little intimidated if you’ve never given anyone a massage before. Don’t worry! If you just use a combination of the following 3 massage techniques on your man then you are 95 percent of the way there. Additionally, it will keep you from complicating things.
- Fingertips: This first technique involves you pressing your fingertips into his muscles and gently moving your fingertips up and down his muscles. It’s that simple… just make sure to trim your fingernails first to avoid accidentally cutting him.
- Lobster claws: You are going to make a kind of lobster claw with your thumb and your index finger. So one side of the claw is your thumb and the other side is your index finger. You’re then going to use this claw to gentle squeeze your man’s muscles. You should only do this over skin that is oiled up so your finger and thumb don’t accidentally pinch his skin. As you claw his skin, you should feel it slipping out of your grip.
- Knuckles: The third technique is simply using your knuckles to deeply press into your man’s muscles wherever you find a knot. You will be using your knuckles in much the same way as you would use your fingertips, except this time you’re going to be applying more pressure. You should start your massage with your man lying on his stomach and you sitting on his thighs/bum. Rub a small amount of oil on your hands and then spread it on his back. You only need enough to very lightly coat his skin.
3.Finally…the best part
After massaging him for anywhere between 10 minutes and an hour, it’s time to get to the happy ending. To do this, he should be on his back and you should start gently massaging around his penis. So focus on his groin area and the lower part of his stomach.
Try to accidentally graze his penis from time to time. It’s doubtful he’ll mind! Most likely he’ll be rock hard at this stage. Now it’s time to start very gently running your fingertips over it using a super-light touch. Do the same with his testicles, all the while making sure to keep massaging the rest of his body so that you draw it out over time.
Note: If you’ve been massaging him for a while now, you may find that there is not a lot of oil left to rub on his penis and the rest of his genitals, so if you find yourself in this situation, then it’s time to add a little more. After this teasing part, when you’ve covered his genitals in massage oil, it’s time to go in for the kill and give him a happy ending.
Using your dominant hand, gently grab your man’s member while using your other hand to softly cup his testicles. Slowly move your hand up and down it making sure to use only the lightest of pressure on it. Remember that his testicles are super sensitive, so you need to squeeze them very gently. As well as squeezing them, you can also gently run your nails over them, which feels like a very pleasurable type of tickling for your man.
As you feel your man getting closer and closer to orgasm, you should start to jerk him off faster, but try to maintain a very light amount of pressure. When he does climax and start to orgasm, slow down immediately as his penis will become super sensitive.