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The surprising thing that happens when you stop going for the orgasm

I’m sure we’ve all been there. You desperately want to have an orgasm, but the more you ‘go’ for it, the more tense you feel, and the further out of reach your orgasm seems to be. Conversely, have you also experienced that moment when an orgasm builds from nowhere, and surprises you in its intensity? Most of us love the “big O,” but giving up the goal and enjoying the journey may be one of the best things you could ever do for your sex life. Here are the surprising things that happen when you stop going for sex

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Let go of goal orientated orgasms.